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Who should seek Therapy?

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​Therapy is for anyone who is looking for support to cope with difficult emotions, and/or challenges related to navigating life circumstances, stage of psychological development, or existential self-questioning. Some people seeking therapy have a diagnosis of a mental illness, but many do not. Emotions such as anxiety or depression are not always "disordered"; indeed, in today's harum-scarum world, some of those responses may not only be normal, but also, appropriate. Therapy can facilitate a deeper understanding of your psychological processes, strategies and skills, and personal growth. Good therapy can help you understand and/or deepen the connections with yourself and others, and live a life you value. 

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What happens in Therapy? 

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I offer a complimentary initial consultation so that you and I can determine if we could work well together. If we decide that we could, I will invite you for an intake interview. During that interview, I will ask you about your personal, medical, and developmental history, but mostly, I am interested in knowing more about what you are struggling with, currently. 

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The sessions following these initial meetings are individual (and occasionally, family) therapy sessions, lasting 45 to 60 minutes. I encourage all my patients to begin with weekly sessions, but the frequency of sessions is ultimately based on your needs.

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​​Therapeutic Style

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My therapeutic style is rooted in humanistic and relational gestalt traditions. The following themes are central to this kind of therapy:

 

  • We focus on the Here and Now: We practice awareness of ourselves in time and space. We are aware of past and future considerations as they reflect in the Enduring Relational Themes that affect our present relationships.

  • We heal through authentic dialogue: We will have a genuine, human-to-human encounter that fosters transparent, respectful engagement.

  • We embody the Paradoxical Theory of Change: We learn to accept ourselves as we are, and interact with our environment as it is, not as we hope it will be.

  • We strive to restore dignity and wholeness: We work collaboratively and practice humility and curiosity toward all parts of our and others'  humanity.

  • We will become aware of our relational field: We do not exist in isolation. We acknowledge how we shape and are shaped by the context in which we exist and have come to exist​

 

Here are two introductory papers that may give you a better idea of Relational Gestalt Therapy should you want to read them. I am happy to answer any questions you may have about their content.  

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The Paradoxical Theory of Change

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Relationality and Relational Processes

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© 2014  by Gauri Savla. 

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